Sitting With The Scornful
Twenty-five years ago, when I was new to Berean, I began my ministry teaching a new Sunday School class called The Sunday Morning Forum. I did not want this class to be the usual Sunday School meeting with a structured lesson format that kept us confined for weeks in a typical lesson plan. At times, we had these, but each lesson in our class was meant to stimulate participation in discussions. In time, the class developed into the format we have now with open discussions on any biblical topic spurred by questions from class members.
This format meant that I, as the teacher, would need to be well-versed on most Bible doctrines and have a good working knowledge of the text. I have spent my life developing this knowledge leaning on the grace of the Holy Spirit to guide me. After these years, I confess there are times questions perplex me and I do not answer all questions well. In those times, I defer, and my next move is to find the answer and report back. It is always best not to answer rather than give a wrong answer. Despite my best efforts, I may want to appear smart and answer anyway. In those times, I ask for the Lord’s and your forgiveness.
There are also times when topics are uncomfortable, and I would rather not deal with them. However, I made a commitment long ago not to slip and slide around difficulties to get me out of the chair and cool my backside. Two weeks ago, one of these topics came before us. It was an unavoidable discussion and we needed to discuss it because it is one of the most volatile subjects we face today. This is the topic of homosexuality. With lightning speed, what society once considered the bottom rung of immorality has not only become morally acceptable but considered a higher morality than strict opposition to it. Not to accept homosexuality as a normal lifestyle and even a preferred one for a segment of the population is to be immoral and abnormal. Most Christians have come to grips with it and rather than rock the boat have taken a laissez-faire, live and let live philosophy. I have a short reply to this. It is not Christian, it is not harmless, it is not godly, it is not a matter of indifference, and it is not acceptable according to the word of God. Regardless, too many Christians have made their peace with it and will not be vocal in opposition to it. They have chosen their friends from among them as if no harm, no foul. There is harm and it is a foul upon decency, and both are deadly serious.
The reality is this sin was so sickening, twisted, and perverted that it caused fire and brimstone to pour out of the sky. It caused the death of thousands among Israel and their enemies. It helped to ruin their morality and incited forays into idolatry that led to Israel’s captivity. Neither Old Testament nor New Testament allows God’s people to accept this sin. There was never a “go along to get along” attitude in any period of church history until the overwhelmingly gigantic push of the last two decades. The demand for tolerance and acceptance is formidable enough to shut preachers’ mouths or risk abandonment by this society. Morality is 180° upside down with most tiptoeing around it with fear they might offend sinners. Some ask why we treat this sin differently. The answer seems all too obvious to me. What sin, what work of Satan has changed an entire worldview and flipped our churches and the laws of our country on end to accept what we dared not accept as anything but one of the most heinous, shameful sins we can commit? We treat it differently because of its demonic power. We do not advocate hatred or harm to homosexuals. We do advocate refusing to mix and mingle with it. Those who do risk what we have already seen. Softening, accepting, and silencing for fear of offense. We must deal with sin and sinners. This is what the church does. Christ saved us from sin, and so they must and may be. We will only help legitimize their cause by friendship and normalization. “Friendship of the world is enmity with God.” When confronted, deal with it biblically and move on. “Blessed is the man that walketh not in the counsel of the ungodly, nor standeth in the way of sinners, nor sitteth in the seat of the scornful.” (Psalms 1:1).
Pastor V. Mark Smith